Step 1: Continue the tradition of smuggling in a box of fancy cupcakes from Star Provisions or chocolate concoctions from Alon's and presenting it after the children are asleep.
Step 2: Handwrite a message on one side of a lovely store-bought card.
Step 3: Sign it, "Love Juan."
Step 4: Tape to the bottom of the sweets box a set of tickets for your wife to take your little girls to their first ever Broadway Tour Show at the stunning historic Fox Theatre.
Step 5: Don't mention that your wife only sent you an email to say Happy Anniversary (well, and lots of sweet words and a message about how much you are loved and what a great dad you are...).
Step 6: Strut around like you are THE MAN. Because, you are.